Sunday, February 10, 2013

The 5 Do's and Don'ts of Getting Him To Commit To You

Here's How To Make Him Feel A Deep Urge To Have You All To Himself

Here's How To Make Him Feel A Deep Urge To Have You All To Himself... Forever

Tom,

A man needs to feel he can't wait to make you his.

He needs to have the constant feeling in his GUT that he can't stand the thought of you being with anyone else - so that he NATURALLY starts to LEAD the relationship to more and more and deeper and deeper commitment.

Rather than having "the talk" or giving him ultimatums, wouldn't it be great if you could create that "you're the only woman I want" feeling in him so that HE'S the one asking YOU for a commitment?

Where he just feels COMPELLED to get YOU to commit to HIM?

There IS a way to create that feeling in him - if you practice these simple steps:

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1. Don't Keep Bringing Up The "Commitment" Discussion

When you feel anxious or worried about where your relationship is headed, it's hard to resist wanting to know what he's thinking.

But constantly trying to talk with him about commitment feels stressful to him and will only make him dig in his heels and retreat - EVEN if he was on the verge of committing all on his own.

So, no matter how much you're dying to know what he's thinking, resist the temptation to bringup this tender topic.

2. Don't Try Convincing Him

The more you try to make a case for how great you are as a couple, the more he feels cornered and manipulated. Your reasoning feels like criticism to him and makes him unable to share his true feelings.

That's certainly not the vibe you want to create in a loving relationship.

A man falls in love when he feels like he can make you happy by being himself and sharing the deepest parts of who he is. By rejecting those parts, you make him feel wrong and cause him to protect his true feelings - and his heart - from connecting with yours.

3. Do Share Your Good Feelings

When you feel good with a man, let him know! By opening up and sharing your feelings, you allow him to connect to you and the positive experience you're sharing. It makes him feel good that he makes you feel good, and he'll want more of that good stuff.

As you continue to lay a stronger foundation of positive feelings, it's only natural that he will see you as a necessary and beautiful part of his life - and he'll want to make sure you stay in it.

Now, I know that opening up about your true feelings isn't always easy with a man. Sometimes you really have no idea what to say - and you may even be afraid of saying the wrong thing that will push him away.

And that's exactly why I created my Love Scripts video series - to show you what to say to a man in ANY situation. And because there are so very many different situations and feelings that can come up with a man, I've created TWO programs: Love Scripts for Dating andLove Scripts for Relationships. You can read more about both of them here and start watching right away:

4. Do Say What You Want - With Or Without Him

Instead of trying to convince him to commit, share your dreams and what you want for your future. For example:

"I don't want to put pressure on the relationship. I don't want to try to convince you, or rush you. It feels good to be with you, but I know I want to have a family someday. What do you think?"

When he sees that you're first and foremost committed to yourself and your dreams, he will feel fired up about you. He'll appreciate you as having high value and be "triggered" to want you all to himself!

5. Do Keep Your Options Open

Dating is a time for you to find out what you really want in a relationship. You can't do this if you close yourself off to other men before you have the commitment you desire.

By meeting lots of people, you open yourself up to discovering a truly great match. You also avoid making any one man the center of your world. Remember, your first commitment is always to you!

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The Secret To Getting The Commitment You Want

As you can see, the key to making a man want you all to himself is to be the woman who loves him but doesn't need him. When he senses that he's very lucky to have you, he'll be motivated to seal the deal before another guy gets in there first.

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Be sure to let me know how these DO's and DON'Ts work for you, and how Blueprint changes your life!

Love, Rori
Rori Raye

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