The Critical Skill You Need That Makes Him Feel Intensely Bonded To You Is the skill taking responsibility for your own happiness first? No, not that either. Or is it keeping the passion alive and making sure he's "sexually satisfied" with you so that he wants to stay with you and only you? The answer is that the most crucial skill is none of these things. The single most important thing you'll ever need to know if you want to have a LASTING and SECURE RELATIONSHIP with a man is... The skill of knowing how to CONNECT and COMMUNICATE with a man. And notice I said "...with a man." Now, it might sound simple, but don't be fooled here and make the mistake most women make thinking they know what they're doing when it comes to how men think about talking and sharing in a relationship with a woman... See... most women believe that they are great communicators because they can SHARE HOW THEY FEEL, and do so often. But does this get them the kind of LISTENING and UNDERSTANDING that they want from the one man they want it with? For an overwhelming majority of women, the answer is NO, it doesn't. But if you think about it, the numbers don't add up here. Here's what I mean... The Art Of Communicating Effectively... With MenIf you're like most women, and you're a great communicator and like to talk and share, then it makes sense that you should have an amazing level of communication going on in your relationships, right? And you probably do... but mostly with THE WOMEN in your life. (Hint, hint.) I mean, doesn't great communication mean that you're able to create the SITUATION or the "environment" where both parties can talk, listen, understand each other, and share? That's what being a great communicator is all about - being the one to "facilitate" understanding and sharing. But then why is it that so many women who are great communicators seem to be the ones who have UNSATISFYING and FRUSTRATING relationships that have little or no TWO-WAY COMMUNICATION with the man in their lives? Following me here? Something is off. Communication That Gets To The Heart Of HimHere's what I've discovered over the years working with women and helping them create amazing relationships with men... Women who don't understand how to genuinely connect with and understand men are always chalking up the poor level of communication to THE MAN in their life - they see it all as a function of how he has STOPPED TALKING AND SHARING with them. Now, this is at least partly true - it's a two-way street, and a man is equally responsible for keeping a relationship going strong. But here's WHAT REALLY MATTERS... What does this situation where a man shuts off mean if you really are a great communicator? It means that you have an opportunity to use your knowledge and SKILLS to quickly "facilitate" a new kind of conversation that will "re-engage" a man and immediately open the doors of LISTENING and UNDERSTANDING back up between you both. It Only Takes One To Create Positive ChangeThe truth is, IT IS POSSIBLE to create near INSTANT CHANGE if you know how to communicate and connect with someone in the right way. And when you start to learn how all this works, and how to quickly and easily connect with anyone on a deep level at any time, something magical starts to happen for you... You start to harness the power of creating a strong "connection" between you and a man in each critical moment in your relationship... And what's even better, you start to enjoy the benefits of how a deep level of connection can immediately transform everything about how you are with each other. In other words, that strong and powerful "connection" that you build actually safeguards you when the bad times and the tough times come and go. And it's amazing when you can experience this and feel the joy, the fulfillment, and the SECURITY and CERTAINTY that it brings. Now, since we've touched on all this about the skill of creating a deep level of connection through communication, I'd like to ask you... Do You Have This Critical Skill Right Now?- Can you create the change and the growth you want in your relationship from your own ability to communicate and connect with HIM?
- Or are you waiting for him to figure out how to reconnect with you, so he'll pull you and your relationship out of the "funk" that it's fallen into?
- Do you feel STUCK as you're constantly trying to reconnect, but the more you seem to try and talk, the more he seems to pull away?
If you don't have this skill we've been talking about, then I think you're starting to see that you'll constantly be at the mercy of whether or not a guy chooses to feel like opening up to you or not. Taking Matters Into Your Own Hands... And Drawing Him InDon't keep feeling scared, anxious, and UNCERTAIN about whether or not a man is going to close off in the future and stay that way until you're left with an empty shell of a relationship. It's time you started creating your own life and relationship that isn't determined by whether or not a man feels like closing off or not. And that's where I can help. You First Step In A New DirectionThe first step I want you to take might sound a bit extreme at first. And you might even resist it out of frustration. But it's going to be the step that changes everything and frees you up to regain your "center" inside you - and your own power as a woman. Here it is: I want you to finally take complete and TOTAL PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY for creating the kind of communication you'd like to have in your life, and with a man in your relationship. In other words, I want you to forget about blaming, criticizing, and living in the past, and I want you to start communicating in the way you know that someone who's both loving and trusting would communicate. And that's how I want you to begin talking and connecting with the man in your life. You have the power to create what you want and create CHANGE in the people around you. When you suddenly show up and do this, it will send a clear, subtle, but irrefutable message to the man in your life. He will sense something has changed immediately. And suddenly all the frustration and blame you've been feeling that still hasn't CHANGED THINGS will fall away and simply disappear. And a man will instantly notice and wonder what has changed inside you... And he'll be drawn to you again. He'll be curious. He'll be wanting to know what's going on. Your Second Step: "The Shift"The next step is to make sure that you know what to do with this new "space" and environment for connection you've created between you and a man. And this is where it becomes absolutely critical that you have your act together when it comes to being able to COMMUNICATE in a way that builds connection and understanding. There's something important you need to understand... Your relationship, and the communication you and a man share in a relationship, are often a series of patterns. He acts distant. You feel unheard or unappreciated. He withdraws more. You try and talk him out of it or get him to open up. He resists and pulls away. YOUR pattern might be somewhat different, but the truth is that you have patterns of your own with a man. When you take the first step and become responsible for creating the kind of connection and communication you want, you actually get to BREAK your Pattern. I call this "the shift", because you can actually FEEL that something is different inside in the way you and your man are around each other. Your Guide To Effortless Communication With HimMy Communication Secrets For A Secure Relationship program will quickly teach you how to share your thoughts and emotions in a way that guarantees a man will not only listen, respect your feelings, and respond in a positive way when you do make the first critical step and take responsibility for the communication you have in your relationship... But it will also show you EXACTLY how to approach each conversation, what to say, the right and wrong way to say it, and help you avoid all the common mistakes that send men packing. The best part is that even though it sounds like a whole lot of "work", it's really simple to get once you spend the time to start learning and working with the material. Go here to watch some samples from my Communication Secrets program, learn some free tips that will get you started immediately, and find out all the details: This program will reveal what is really happening "beneath the surface" when you're talking with a man, and it will take you inside his mind so you know where he's coming from and how to use it to create a stronger bond with him. It will not only help you get a clear handle on why a man isn't hearing you, but also show you how to easily get across what you're thinking and feeling in a way that a man is sure to HEAR and UNDERSTAND. More importantly, you'll learn how to respond to in an open and supportive way. The difference is often a tiny "shift," or a word here or there - but these can make ALL THE DIFFERENCE. Here's Something I Want You To Think About...Your relationship is NOT set in stone. In fact, it's actually made up of a huge collection of tiny moments, of feelings, of connections. Which means... you have the power to dramatically change the quality of your relationship and what you experience in it by finally CHOOSING and learning how to CREATE the moments you want to share. But you've got to learn how to get started. Once you know how it works, it's easy. Now is your chance to change your life and the kind of communication and connection you share with a man, FOREVER. So don't keep yourself from the love, happiness, and security you could have when it's right in front of you. The sooner you learn what it takes to communicate with a man and get the RESPONSE that you want (him being open, supportive, loving, understanding)... Then the sooner you'll be able to start enjoying a relationship you can have real CONFIDENCE and SECURITY in. After all, wouldn't it be better to be telling your girlfriends about how wonderful your man is... instead of bonding over why he isn't and how it's holding you back in love? Get started now by going HERE: You won't be disappointed, and I'll talk to you again soon. Your Friend, Christian
 | Communication Secrets  | Be the woman who "gets" him like no other: - Talk with him so he'll listen
- Get him to open up and share
- Create a rock-solid bond
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| | Relationship Turnaround  | Recapture your initial spark and get him excited about you: - Fall in love all over again
- Communicate to build connection
- Experience more passion than ever
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